As your companion, I offer a range of session types, from sweetly intimate cuddles to massage, from sensual connection to darkly deviant passion. Your wish is my command, your pleasure my only guide as we explore the lushly rich garden of your desires.

If you’re curious about my skills or interests, my FetLife profile offers a reasonably good description of what interests me. Please don’t look at this as a “menu” or guarantee, however. Try to let the pleasures of our session unfold naturally, without getting too focused on any particular activity or goal. Release attachment to “checking off the boxes” and simply be present as we discover each other.

Note: I do not offer bareback sex. Ever. “GFE” is not a code-word for this. Asking will get you blocked and blacklisted.


I am delighted to meet new people, and I do screen new clients, without exception. Please be ready to share either recent provider references or other bona fides before our first meeting. For more information on my particular screening process, please click here.

For a great post on why I screen at all, please click here.

(Please note: Provider references may or may not be sufficient for screening, depending on how recently you’ve seen that provider and how much they remember.)

Contacting Me

The easiest way to contact me is to use my Contact Form or complete the following template. Just copy and paste it into a text or email, and fill in the requested information.

Hi Tabitha! My name is (name), my username is (username), my number is (phone number), and my email is (email). You can find me on (social media handles). I would like to set up a (type of session) on (day of week), (date), at (time) for (desired session duration.). I am a (age range)-ish (career description), and I enjoy (hobbies). Thank you and I hope to hear back from you soon!

Compassionate Companion

A “Compassionate Companion” session unfolds naturally, with gentle guidance but without pressuring either of us to take charge. Most toys stay in the drawer, unless specifically requested. I’m good, giving, and game, and my specialty is offering you a safe space to slow down and savor the bliss of being connected with someone who genuinely cares about you and your pleasure.

150 / 30 min (available on specified in-call days only)
180 / 45 min
220 / 1 hour
330 / 1.5 hours
440 / 2 hours
600 / 3 hours

Anal is not included but may be discreetly requested in advance, for an additional $30.

Longer visits and overnights are most welcome and available by request.

Couples are delightful and I’m excited to meet you and your friend. Please assume my rates are doubled for pairs, and we can discuss rates for “moresomes.”

Duos: Minimum 400 / hour (rate will vary depending on provider and type/length of session)

Above and Beyond Experience

An “Above and Beyond” session lets us walk on the wild side and offers a greater range of activities. This is where my skills and experience in role-play, kink, and fetish really shine. Tell me your fantasies, and I’ll do my best to make them come true! Costumes, toys, strap-ons, props, taboo subjects…there are no judgments and few limitations here! Ask for what you want and discover just how deeply I’m committed to making your visit exquisitely exciting.

250 / 1 hour (minimum session length for this type of session)
375 / 1.5 hours
500 / 2 hours
750 / 3 hours

Anal is included, but is still at my discretion and must be negotiated, as are light- to medium role-play and kink.

If you’re looking for a heavy scene, edge playstrict BDSM, or deep role-play, I’m excited to go there with you. I may require a vanilla visit or two prior to doing heavy or edgy play, and there may be a reasonable additional donation, depending on your desires. Let’s discuss it and make sure we’re on the same page first!

Your Place

Depending on location, I may add a travel fee (to be determined prior to booking).

Social Hour

If you’d like to meet in public first to suss out our connection, or are a newbie still building references, let’s hang out and get to know each other, shall we?

$100 / 60 min, plus food, drinks, parking, and/or other incidentals.

The Three “R’s” (Reading, ‘Riting, and ‘Rotica)

If you’re looking for an experience more cerebral than physical, I’m a skilled writer with a flair for creative erotica. Let me tickle the erogenous zone between your ears with anything from intimate innuendo to wicked words. I can send you hot stories via email, or even co-create your secret fantasies with you.

The A. N. Roquelaure — One to two emails per week and reasonable texting  (20 / week)

The Anne Desclos — Three to five letters per week and reasonable texting  (30 / week)

The Anaïs Nin — Five to eight missives per week and reasonable texting  (50 / week)

Sexting/Phone/Video Calls

Are you looking for more real-time interactions? Wanna talk or text dirty to me? I’m here for you, waiting breathlessly for your naughty thoughts and eager to share mine.

Phone/Sexting Sessions: 25 / 30 min

Live Video Calls: 40 / 30 min

Electronic connections may be compensated via Amazon gift cards, Ko-fi ( or other verified and immediate means. Note: Due to current legislation, I no longer accept PayPal, Venmo, Square, Cash App, or most other bank-based forms of electronic payment.

Late Arrival/Cancellation/No Show Policy

Punctuality is important. If you will be more than 10 minutes late, please contact me immediately. Depending on the circumstances, I may be able shift your appointment back, or see you for a shortened visit. Please communicate with me as soon as you know you’ll be late so we can see what we can do. I’ll do my best to accommodate you, but if I can’t, I will consider this a short-notice cancellation as described below.

If you cancel on short notice (less than 12 hours, depending on when we scheduled the appointment), are running so late that we can’t make your original appointment work, or fail to show, I reserve the right to charge any amount up to the full donation, at my discretion. I’ll gladly apply half of that cancellation fee to your next visit, if you reschedule within a reasonable amount of time, If you are unwilling or unable to make amends, I will regretfully post alerts to the appropriate places.

If I have to cancel on short notice, or am running too late for your schedule to accommodate, I will do my best to let you know as soon as I possibly can, reschedule as soon as I’m able, and I will certainly make it up to you.